Raising Your Vibes To Help You Find Your True Home

One of the things I noticed is that the vibe at Atlantic Beach is one that resonates deeply with my soul. I did a lot of vibration raising before and during process of buying a home and moving here. I also cleared a ton of blocks in my way of having this happen.

It was definitely a spirit–led move, but that does not mean it was easy. Actually I have learned, spirit-led movement in any direction often means tons of opportunity for growth so that we can evolve in ways we intended in this lifetime.

If you would like to raise your vibes and start moving stuff out of the way, to make your identification and/or transition to your new home, new career, new relationships, et al easier, I invite to you try seven days of vibe raising for just $7.00.

Now I raised my vibe for a lot longer than that, but you can try it for 7 days and then see if you want to continue for longer. (We’re even providing accountability partners for you to help you keep on track with attaining what you desire)

To learn more, go to http://YourVibesUp.com.

Money Tips for Going Beyond Survival

Money is the current medium for exchange. We all know it is important to have money to survive at this point in our lives. And generally speaking, we would like to do more than survive. We want to live joyful and abundant lives. And that looks different to each of us.

Here are some key ingredients that are important to know about attracting an abundance of money:

1) money is not bad. it is necessary as a means of exchange for the things we want and need.So if you have subsconscious beliefs that money is bad, the root of all evil, not spiritual, etc, those need to be released for you to have the abundance you truly desire.

2) At this point in our evolution, those of us who have a higher calling are being asked to step up to the plate and fullfill on the mission that we came to do in this lifetime. That is the only way we will make money in a way that is sustainable. (Previously I thought that everyone on the planet has a higher calling at this time and I have been told this is not correct. Everyone has a purpose but that is a bit different than a higher calling). Most of you who are reading this do have a higher calling. That is why you were drawn to it in the first place.

3) In addition to knowing our higher calling, we must raise our vibration to the highest energetic levels possible.

4) In order to carry out our higher mission and keep our energy high, we must clear all thoughts, blocks, patterns and traumas at multiple dimensions. In the past we only cleared blocks at one level. This is not sufficient. At this point, I am clearing blocks and patterns on 14 planes and multiple dimensions and it is extremely powerful, yet easy. I clear things pretty much every day.

5) As we move forward to live out our highest mission and clear the blocks at all of these levels, we evolve spiritually to new heights. And as we do these two things in harmony, we will also attract great rewards in all avenues of our life. So here is the new mantra I am being given:

Spiritual Evolution = Abundance

In the past, the formula I used was

V1 (High Visibility) + V2 (High Vibration) = S4 (Sucess Quadrupled).

This is still true as well. But those of us with a higher calling to help with with the challenges being faced on the planet, need to be living out that mission we intended as well in order for the abundance to be sustainable.

My Higher Calling

Part of my higher mission is to assist all of those who came forth to heal the planet, to get in touch with that higher calling, to heal what is in the way of you going forward and to teach you tools you can use to carry out your higher mission while earning a good living.

Your Higher Calling

Some of you may be saying, I am doing just fine financially so I must be living out my mission. But if you know deep in your heart that you are not living your purpose, the flow of abundance may be short lived. It is best to get on track now rather than find yourself in a desperate situation later.

Others of you are feeling the pinch. It is an important time for you to check in and see what you are meant to do next.

Additionally, those who came to heal the planet are needed NOW. It is asked that you step up and claim who you really are so that you can get the support you need to move forward and help others.

If you are not sure what you came to do or feel blocked in any way, you can schedule an intuitive career reading at www.balancedliving.com/coaching/intuition.

 

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

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We are all different yet we have a tendency to compare ourselves to others. It’s human nature, and while learning from others is an important part of critical decision making, if it is used to reinforce an unrealistic or negative self-image it can be an unhealthy habit to get into.

I was going to writing an article about the comparison trap for entrepreneurs and then I saw this one and thought it was worth sharing. It’s not just focused on entrepreneurs but has some good points.  The point I would add is  quit worrying about what everyone else is doing and do what raises your energy.

Enjoy and let me know your thoughts.

Steps

  1. Recognize that comparing yourself to others is a bad habit. Culture often projects flawless skin, big eyes, full lips, small nose, pure white teeth, smooth and shiny hair, curvy body, and designer clothes for women and they portray them as being happy. They portray tall men with flawless skin, six packs, and designer clothes with lots of women, and they define that that is what makes a man happy. Culture is extremely successful in being able to brainwash people into believing they should look a certain way, act a certain way, be a certain someone, when in reality every single one of us is different. What culture does is categorize people and they want you to believe that you have fewer rights to be happy because you do not fit an idealistic lifestyle. That’s why lots of men and women resort to plastic surgery, hide away from society, and grow up thinking that there’s something wrong with them. Comparing yourself to others, especially celebrities, is a fine way to throw your self-esteem down the drain as there will always be those who are ‘better’ than you, and those who are ‘worse’ than you. In the end you will most likely end up wishing you were different with thoughts of worthlessness. It takes you nowhere, wastes a lot of time, and puts you in a psychologically terrible place.
  2. Realize that everybody is different, because we are.People are born to be different; no two of us are the same. We have different mindsets, we interpret things differently, we have different experiences, we feel different emotions. Even identical twins are different from each other. We all will always have room for improvement; nobody is flawless, whether it is on the outside or on the inside. As much as some people may want to believe otherwise, nobody is perfect.It would be wise to stop letting people get to you, and be open-minded and aware of what you are doing to others. Something you can do is start thinking how different they are from you.
  3. Stop being afraid to be yourself.Whatever size, color, religion, gender, race, or sexual orientation, don’t be afraid to be yourself. Nobody but you has the right to dictate what you do, what you think, and what you believe in. There is only one you; nobody has more rights over another person to live. Everybody comes into the world the same way; we all age, feel, analyze, and eventually die, so nobody is more special than another. We are all different. If you’ve forgotten who you are, find yourself again.
  4. Forgive and learn. Learn to recognize that holding a grudge only ties you down from what you really want out of life. Untie the knot and set yourself free. Better yet, analyze and learn what actually hurt you, and prevent it from happening again in the future.
  5. Understand that not everything is possible.You might have heard the saying, ‘nothing is impossible’. In reality that’s only denialism and false hope. You can’t fly, change the weather, time-travel, change the past, live forever, make someone else change unless they are willing to, fit in with everybody, or be somebody else. There are many more things that cannot happen in reality. Be yourself and appreciate where you are now.
  6. Learn to deal with change and embrace it.
  7. Whatever makes you happy, whatever floats your boat. If you feel you need self-improvement and have set yourself an attainable goal, go for it. If you believe that you really need change, do it now. Be sure that you’re doing it because it will make you happier, rather than impressing somebody else. For example, stop swearing if it makes you feel better. Learn to meditate. Start helping others. Learn a new skill. Improve your reading speed. Learn how to write poetically, work towards a better grade, be nicer to someone, try to be more outgoing, train yourself to run faster, learn how to wear makeup better, find clothes that will fit your frame, be a better wikiHow contributor, work harder towards that promotion, learn to better manage your time, change your habit of being a perfectionist, etc. Do it because you feel good about it, not because you feel bad about yourself. This is your life.

Tips

  • Don’t be afraid to put yourself first. You have needs, too. Take care of yourself. If you have a tendency to bend over backwards for others, read How to Stop Being a People Pleaser and How to Overcome Martyr Syndrome.
  • Make some mutual friends.
  • It’s better to be the original you than to be a copy of somebody else.
  • Learn to be patient and accepting with others. This can take a lot of training to do, but in the long run it will be beneficial for everyone.
  • Realize that some methods can work for many others but not for you. When this happens, don’t quit. Keep searching.
  • Learn from your experience.
  • If you don’t have a solid way yet, find a way to let out your anger, frustrations, disappointments and concerns, a way that you can depend on – such as keeping a journal, making a blog, making music, talking or writing about it with someone you trust.
  • It’s better to do it now than think back sometime in the future and ask yourself, “what if?”. It’s better to get hurt then recover from it than having to accept that you lived a very dull life, realizing that you were the one who held you back.
  • You can never be too old to dream, and it’s never too late to achieve your dream, one way or another.
  • Some things can be done and changed overnight; other things cannot be. Habits for example, can be extremely difficult to drop. Don’t be discouraged. Comparing yourself to others is a bad habit a lot of people have. It can take some time to change. Don’t give up. Think about it this way; if you don’t ever give up, you can’t ever fail.
  • If you’ve ever felt like giving up on life but came back from the thought, it’s because you have hope in you. Hold onto that hope. Always have hope in whatever you do, wherever you are.

Warnings

  • Beating yourself is a waste of time, energy, and self-esteem.
  • Don’t allow other people to compare you with others, either.
  • Don’t encourage others if you don’t want to hear it. Don’t make fun of yourself; others may start thinking it’s acceptable to make fun of you.
  • Don’t accumulate unnecessary pressure. Let others do their part too. If they don’t, make them. If they won’t, just let it be. If you have too many responsibilities, chances are you won’t be able to accomplish what you really want to, or even need to.
  • While comparing yourselves to others in excess is generally unfavorable while also conducive to paranoid behavior and depression, keep in mind it is important to still remain competitive in some measure to be successful. But do it from a fun, joyful place and know that there is enough for everyone.

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Do the Steps to Reach Your Goal Raise Your Energy?

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Sometimes we set goals because we think it’s what we should do or what we should achieve.  Sometimes we like the idea of the end result, but not the daily to-do’s involved.  So many times I see people who go into a particular field because they like the money that they can make and the freedom it will buy them.  But they don’t like the things they have to do to get there.  That’s not a great way to live our lives.

Sometimes we change and what was important to us before is not what is important to us now.  And sometimes we have a million ideas and are not sure which ones to do first or we want to do them all at one time and feel like we’re spinning our wheels.

You may have related to one or more of those things or you may have been in a different place.  Just notice what feels like a fit for you and what resonates with you.  When you are aligned with what you really want, it raises your energy to think about it.  Not just the end result that raises your energy, but the actual doing of it raises your energy.

You want to check in first of all with what your goals are that you’ve set for yourself and are you as lit up by the actual day-to-day doing of reaching the goal – the things that you need to do – as you are attaining the goal.  Now when I say that, I’m not talking about the little administrative things.  I’m talking about the bigger part of what you do.  If you’re coaching, do you love coaching?  If you’re speaking, do you love speaking?  If you’re in direct sales, do you love selling?  If not, that’s something to look at.

The means and the result both need to raise your energy.  Again, not every piece of it is going to raise your energy, but the key is to find a way or a means of getting there that does raise your energy and does match your skills.

For example, I love coaching people.  There’s not much I like doing more than that.  I just totally love it.  And I like coaching people individually, I like coaching people in a group.  It raises my energy and it’s a good match, it’s a really good match, for my natural talents.  So this is one of the main ways I help people live out their dreams because it’s a really great fit for me and I love doing it.  I also love creating.  And I love teaching.    So I’m doing different things that are in alignment on a daily basis.

And of course, there are some of the details that I don’t like and I’m constantly looking for ways to delegate those, automate those, or find other ways of attaining my goals so that more and more and more of my day is doing the things that I like.

If you’re looking at what it is that you do, and you can’t find a means of doing it that raises your energy when you think about it, it probably is not the goal for you at this point in time.  Now you may be attached to “there’s only one way” and what I want to say is there’s never only one way.  No matter what other people tell you.  And people will tell you that there’s this way and it’s the best way and it’s the only way.  And it’s never the truth.  It’s just their beliefs because it’s what’s worked for them.

And what’s important is to set goals that light you up and do it in a way that works for you, a way that matches your skills and talents in a way that is enjoyable for you.  Pay attention if you already have a goal and the goal lights you up, look at the means and be willing to explore the ways, we’re going to talk about that more.

This post was excerpted from the class, “How to Get Back on Track With Your howtogetbackontrackDreams” by Stacey Mayo. To learn more and purchase audio and transcript of this class, go to  http://www.balancedliving.com/online-store/scattered-sign-up/

About Stacey Mayo

Stacey Mayo is a successful Master Level Healer, Medical Intuitive and Coach and has been in business for over 25 years. She teaches people how to be very successful entrepreneurs in their chosen field and attunes people to be amongst the top in their field. Mayo has been training and certifying people to be Master Level Medical Intuitives and Healers for over 15 years. She has supported thousands of people in achieving better health and living out their dreams. She is an award-winning author and has appeared on the CBS evening news segment, Confident Women, and is a popular public speaker. She has appeared in Forbes, Newsday, the Wall St. Journal, Atlanta Sports & Fitness, Atlanta Woman and Woman’s Day. She is a former Medical Intuitive columnist for the Sedona Journal. She has been featured a number of times in the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, including the piece, ‘Midlife,’ which engages people in considering how they can stop deferring their dreams.

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